For many of us, at some point in our life, we have been faced with a relationship (s) that challenge us and caused us to feel out of control. Whether the individual is a family member, a close friend, a coworker, or an acquaintance, we have been unclear on what we need to do to bring a sense of calm and balance to the relationship.  It may be a struggle with how to respond to someone who wants more of your time, or who is depending on you for support, someone who needs our money, or who desperately needs to feel loved.  Whatever the need, the role to fill this has been placed on our plate, and with all the other aspects of our life to manage, the demands of one person can throw off the balance of our lives